"Don't settle!" She tells herself. "But look, feel that connection, it's okay! Nothing else matters but those feelings of yours!" She tells herself afterward as a way to justify her new feelings of a boy, more like a guy, man, gentleman she met weeks earlier... She can't quite put her finger on it, but the connection is there, so presently! He looks familiar too, very much so. Like she's known him elsewhere...
What is one to do if they have a certain set of characteristics, a list of what they are looking for in THEIR perfect mate and yet the first guy they meet by person-to-person interaction is not what they were hoping to manifest, yet they have this exhilarating feeling when talking with them? Do they settle, give it a go? Continue along the path of least resistance and be friends? Being friends is awesome, cool, good, great and all things kind of wonderful, but it's not the same as building a connection based on mutual attraction, on the mind, body and spirit levels! Or maybe, that's what the friendship does... is create a foundation of connection for those things and upon entering into a relationship builds up on that foundation.
A thought just came to me that I need to live in the now and focus on the moment I am living, THIS INSTANT, as opposed to what is going to happen if we continue to talk and talk and talk? Big deal, two people are talking, that is it! That is all they are doing, talking and connecting!
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